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33: Part 2 of 3 – The Love Series, “Tap” Into Your True Love, with Jessica Ortner – Game Changer

Jessica Ortner is a producer of The Tapping Solution, the breakthrough documentary film on EFT/meridian tapping ( She has led more than 3,000 women through her revolutionary Weight Loss and Body Confidence online program, and she is also the host of The Tapping World Summit, an annual online event that has attracted more than 500,000 attendees from around the world. She has been interviewing experts in the personal development field since 2007, having conducted over more than 200 broadcast interviews to date.  She is also a New York Times best selling author of The Tapping Solution for Weight Loss & Body Confidence.


Have you always known that you wanted to do what you are doing now?

I didn’t even know that I would wind up where I am 5 years ago.  As a child growing up I had a lot of insecurity, but I had a little voice that knew I was here to do something great.

How did “Tapping” come into your life?

After college I wanted to do something different, and things just weren’t coming together the way I thought they would.  I then became sick with this flu that wouldn’t go away.  My brother Nick had me try tapping and all of the sudden I realized I didn’t want to get better.  Since nothing was going my way, I just wanted to take a break from life.  At that point when I began to honor that truth and I felt a shift while tapping, by honoring that voice.  And at that point I started to get better.  That was the introduction.  Months later with a relationship break-up, I tried tapping again and I knew then that this really worked.  And its was something I could do on my own.  At the end of the day tapping relieves stress – and from that point we can heal, make better decisions, and see possibilities we couldn’t see otherwise.

What are common blocks to love that you have seen when working with people?

Pay attention to the patterns.  Past relationships can give us clues as to what we believe about relationships.  For example, if you believe that you have to give up more than you will gain, it is likely you will push love or the relationship away.  Another, is the way we look at dating.  By putting pressure as though the first date should lead to a ring sets us up for failure.  Instead look at dating as merely being present and not judging the date as a pro and con list.

Click the link to learn more about Tapping.  How to do it and why it works, as well as instructional videos with Jessica and Nick Ortner: The Tapping Solution


What about when love doesn’t show up when we want it to?

There are two souls involved.  Let go of control and have faith in the process in the spiritual journey.  You are meant to meet when it is right for BOTH of you.


Best advise:

It’s a mantra: “I am exactly where I’m meant to be.”  What you are experiencing in this moment is exactly what you are meant to go through for your highest good.


What do you believe to be true?

We are being taken care of by something greater than ourselves.


To connect with Jessica Ortner:  Adventures in Happiness Podcast, and The Tapping Solution (download a free tapping mediation) and Ortner


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  1. Victoria LaBouff-Lanza on 02/01/2016 at 6:15 PM

    Really really fantastic information. Anyone and everyone can and will relate and LEARN from this.
    I appreciate the love and dedication that you take to put into your Podcasts Michelle.
    I couldn’t be more proud of you.
    Much Love, Vik

    • Michelle Dutro on 02/02/2016 at 3:12 AM

      Thank you so much Vik! This really does mean the world to me, thank you so much for listening! Michelle Dutro

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